Mommy T's adventures; bringing up Baby T

Month: August 2016 (Page 1 of 2)

My First Cloth Diaper

I wanted to make a  type of cloth diapers post. But before that, I felt I should share how I felt when I received my first cloth diaper in my hands.

After weeks of research I placed my first order for a cover, a pocket and a fitted diaper. Yet when I received the diapers in hand, they felt alien, like something I had never seen or experienced before.

That’s why this post.. this is for all the new parents and care givers who wish to cloth diaper, but have no idea what a cloth diaper even looks like. Hopefully this post will familiarize you with the ins and outs of a CD and help you make a better, informed choice when buying them for your little ones.
So here is my first CD: a Pororo pocket diaper in owls print. Owls for some reasons are very popular on cloth diapers. Almost every brand has an owls diaper.

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Pororo one sized pocket cloth diaper

 

A cloth diaper is a modern cloth nappy. Unlike the erstwhile cloth nappies, modern cloth diapers are designed to hold much more matter read: pee and poop; prevent leakages and are waterproof. One major improvements is also that they don’t give baby a feeling of wetness, baby stays dry and happy for longer periods of time, even overnight. So basically, a modern cloth diaper imitates a disposable diaper in function, without any of the dangerous chemicals, bleach, paper and plastic. Wow, right!

Cloth diapers also make sense because they are size adjustable. They go right from the newborn stage to toddler-hood.

But how does it achieve this? Let’s look at this function by function.

Waterproof

A modern cloth diaper has a PUL exterior. PUL (polyurethane laminate) or TPU (thermoplastic polyurethane) as some diapers have, is a laminate treatment applied to cloth (either cotton or polyester blends.) It is in essence a plastic layer added to cloth. This makes the cloth waterproof, while at the same retaining some amount of breath-ability. This does not mean that you can hold the laminated fabric to cover your face and breathe through it, like a mask. But it means that the fabric releases heat and water vapour thus keeping baby’s bottom comfortable.

Here is a closer look at PUL on a cloth diaper.

PUL treatment inside the cover which makes CDs waterproof

Leak proof

Cloth diapers are meant to fit on snugly on to baby. They should not be put on loose around the waist or thighs or at the crotch area. Unlike disposables which have liquid crystals which readily absorb any liquids, cloth diapers and their inserts absorb a little slowly. So things need to be snug and fit well, such that there are no leakages. Elastics around the thighs and at the back help achieve this. In fact in my experience, modern cloth diapers are so much better at containing new born pooplosions. These leg elastics and the inner double gusset created here, do that marvelously well.

Leg elastics and double gussets inside the CD which holds it all in

Stay dry feel

The inner of a cloth diaper, or the lining inside is the fabric that touches baby’s bottom and is usually made of material which wicks moisture away from the source and take it down to the absorbent material which will hold it until changed. This material touching baby skin therefore needs to be safe and not cause rashes, or heat up irritating baby. Usually it is made of suede, fleece, cotton, velour, hemp, bamboo, charcoal bamboo. Not all of these are stay dry though.?

Suede lining inner: wicks away liquids quickly & gives stay dry effect

Customizable absorbency

This owl diaper here is a pocket type, which means that it has a pocket in which you can stuff the absorbent material i.e. the inserts. Depending on your baby’s wetting pattern and your ability to change baby (example: is it for short periods, or for post lunch naps, nighttime, going out) you can add absorbent material into this pocket.

Pocket opening inside which inserts are added

Once you feel the baby has peed enough to fill the diaper capacity, you need to change it. This is roughly between one to two hours for most diapers (or immediately in case of poop.) In the case of a pocket diaper, the entire diaper needs to be replaced. Other systems do allow you to change just the absorbent part i.e the insert and re-use the same shell (diaper outer)

Inserts come in a variety of types based on their material and their holding capacity. There are natural fibre inserts or synthetic ones. Each have their own set of advantages, there is no one insert which is better than the others. But I would say each serve a specific purpose and so it really depends on your baby’s wetting pattern and your convenience with respect to changing baby and doing laundry.

Size adjustable

The wonder of wonders about modern cloth diapers is that they can last you right from the newborn stage to toddler hood. How? Because they come with snap adjustments to make the diaper smaller or bigger. Therefore there is no sizing depending on baby’s age or weight. (Most diapers do mention a general weight range, but it is more of an indicator than a hard and fast.) You do  get sized diapers with certain brands, but most people prefer getting a one size diaper. The diaper has snaps, most usually on the front which can be closed down as per the baby’s size. So you start with the lowest and then work upwards as baby grows. This info-graphic is a commonly referred to indicator for sizing one-sized diapers.

 

We started using this pocket diaper around a few weeks old. BabyT was not very lean and we did not need to use the preemie or newborn sizing, but that is achieved by crossing over the tabs like so.

 

We started off from small size (from the time babyT was around 4 kgs) and are currently at the medium setting (at close to 9 kgs.)

Different sizes achieved by shutting the rise snaps in the front of the CD

This is just an indicator, the waist can be adjusted at every setting to fit a range of baby sizes.

What did you expect when you ordered your first cloth diaper? Did it meet your expectations or you had some surprises? I’d love to hear your experiences.

Babywearing: Kol Kol Meitai

Last week we hosted the traveling Meitai baby carrier from Kol Kol Baby Carriers. We had it with us for all of one week and we fell in love with it completely. Get a head’s up about baby wearing here.
My current collection of baby wearing stuff has a stretchy wrap, a Soft Structured Carrier with buckle and a Ring Sling. I had always assumed a Mei Tai was complicated, especially after my messy wrapping attempts with my Moby wrap. So when my traveling carrier arrived I was transported back to the early days when babyT was a new-born and I would struggle and be dissuaded by family from wrapping him. I think a large part of my discomfort with early baby wearing can be attributed to family dissuasion. But maybe I should have persisted and made them see the benefits of it in practice, as I did with cloth diapers. (Yes, with me every topic has to include something about cloth diapers.)

So after a day of it just lying there, I mustered enough courage to read and re-read the manual and then watch Bayiravi’s Youtube video. And so I tried it on and babyT was up in less than two minutes. No kidding! Mind = Blown. And babyT was so comfortable in it that he kicked a right old fuss to be taken out of the house immediately. I think this picture shows his desperation to get out. Cursed myself for not wearing decent clothes, grabbed the keys and we were out the door… babyT squealed in delight. I knew we had a winner then.

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We roamed around the apartment complex for about ten minutes. BabyT felt light as a feather, I felt I had nothing on… no complex harnesses, no yards upon yards of fabric, no plastic buckles or metal rings. It felt like another part of my attire. I was confident of expanding my geography and we went for a long walk. We were out for a good hour and I was beyond impressed.

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What is a Mei Tai?
It is a traditional South East Asian baby carrier. It has a front panel to which fabric straps are attached, forming the shoulder straps. There is also a panel with strap to tie around your waist. Kol Kol’s Mei Tai also comes with an attached hood to shield baby from the sun or for discreet nursing. (Image source: Google)

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How to:

Pre-wearing prep:
The Kol Kol Mei Tai comes with an adjustable waist. It has Velcro sewn in inside the waist belt, such that the front panel can be made narrower or wider so as to fit a new-born baby as well as an older baby. Similarly, you can also fold over the front panel before tying it on, to reduce the height of the carrier. You can see how this is done here.

Wearing baby:

  1. Tie the waist panel around yourself and tighten at the back with two knots. Tight as you can.
  2. Take your baby and place him on your chest, this should take the natural M position, with knees higher than the bum.
  3. Take the front panel up around baby’s body and toss the shoulder straps over your back.
  4. While one hand holds baby, take one of the two shoulder straps and cross it over, then the other. Both the straps should make a cross on your back. The straps should be pulled tight, spread them out nicely for a better hold.
  5. Then bring them over to the front, and cross over baby’s bottom (on top of the front panel.) Twist them twice, no need for knots. I like to spread the straps out a bit, before twisting them, to give a good support to baby’s bottom.
  6. Pass the straps from under baby’s knees to your back and tie a double knot. And you are done.

For a better pictorial description, look here. Or for a video, see this.

What I love:

  • The fabric is 100% cotton, super soft, breathable – which is a boon for our Indian weather.
  • It is strong enough to hold an almost ten kg baby, yet light and comfortable at the same time, without any bulk.
  • No plastic buckles or metallic rings. It’s cotton in and out.
  • Feels like second skin. If you wear it correctly baby even seems weightless in it. Don’t take my word for it, but daddy dearest also loved the complete hands free, comfort that came with wearing babyT in it.IMG-20160822-WA0003
  • Vibrant colours & patterns. Kol Kol has very Indian patterns as well as some gorgeous culture neutral prints.
  • Very easy to get on – I am a klutz when it comes to wrapping and even need help getting our soft structured carrier on, but I think I can safely say I am a pro at wearing babyT in the MeiTai. And not just me, but I tied it on to my dad, and then taught my husband to wear babyT in it. Seriously, if I can do it, anyone can.2016-08-22_00.27.16

What I thought could be better:

  • After about an hour of wearing babyT in this, I found he had slid down a bit. However I asked the experts and they have told me it is normal. This can be avoided by making sure the Mei Tai is worn tightly and this gets better with practice.
  • I so wish they were reversible, two designs in one carrier would be so great. Wishful thinking.

 

My ratings for this baby carrier:

  • Ease of use: 5/5
  • Appearance: 4/5 (just being stingy)
  • Value for money: 5/5
  • Baby’s comfort: 5/5
  • Baby wearer’s comfort: 4/5 (stingy again)

The Mei Tai has been elevated to number one position in my baby wearing charts. I am so glad I was pushed by a friend to sign up for the traveling carrier program and even happier that I was selected to try it on. I am sorely missing the carrier, now that it has been passed on to the next person in this program. I am waiting for Bayiravi to add some new prints to the MT collection and look forward to welcoming a piece soon.

Book review: Goodnight Mr Darcy by BabyLit books

The last thing I intended to do on this blog was review baby books. But this had to be done.

I will be honest and say that when I picked up the highly recommended Goodnight Moon for babyT, I found it incredibly boring, dull, hated the illustrations… but cut down to six months of reading it almost every day and now singing it out every night before bedtime (yes we know it by heart now), I love this book and the calming effect it has on T who is restless for a drink & to be tucked into bed.

So when I knew that the guys and ladies at BabyLit have a parody version of Goodnight Moon,  and that to do with Pride & Prejudice (swoons thinking of Colin Firth), called Goodnight Mr Darcy we had to naturally get one for mommyT..err I mean for babyT.

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What I love:

  • Elizabeth Bennet. Mr Darcy. The Netherfield Ball. Weddings. Nuff said.
  • The colour scheme & room arrangement reminds you of the ones from Goodnight Moon. The mouse, the red balloon are here too. But instead of the cow jumping over the moon, here’s a fine gent riding a horse jumping over a fence. Very English.
  • The cover page is also pretty similar, the fireplace, the window and the curtains. But its nice to have Ms Bennett on the cover of this version.
  • Some phrases from Goodnight Moon have followed here – Goodnight mush. But thankfully a more pleasant version of it.
  • It sums up the P&P story well. There are a bunch of ladies who dance with some men and they fall in love with each other, but don’t know it yet. They let go of their pride and prejudices and confess their love for each other and lots of weddings happen. That can fit in a 10 page board book.
  • Great way to introduce children to classic literature.

What I thought could be better:

  • The imagery although similar, shows the character illustrations in a different genre or theme. It seems to be a mismatch.
  • The rhyme scheme seems off.. I don’t think I can sing this in the same tune as I do for Goodnight Moon.
  • The story jumps a bit from Mr Bennet saying hush; to Lizzy and Mr Darcy dropping their pride & finding love.
  • I didn’t feel the fireworks and butterflies when Elizabeth and Mr Darcy get together here. That is one aspect of P&P which makes my eyes go heart shaped every single time.
  • Needed to see more of the pride and prejudices. They were fun.
  • Will make absolutely no sense to babies and tots. This is one for their mommies.
  • Expensive for a baby book at Rs. 860

My ratings for this book:

  • Design & illustration: 3/5
  • Story: 4/5
  • Entertainment: 5/5
  • Cost: 3/5

This one is for keeps if you are an Austen fan. It’ll make you chuckle in the all knowing inevitability of the happy endings. It’ll transport you to the subtle love stories of Pride & Prejudice. If read out well and explained to children this is a great way to introduce them to English literature and its gems.

 

World Breastfeeding Week – Day 7: Mommy, Don’t you quit!

What a great week this has been. I think I’ve said a lot already about my journey. But I want to leave behind some inspiration for fellow breastfeeding moms and what keeps me going too. Here is inspired by Kipling’s Don’t Quit, my first public attempt at poetry. 🙂

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World breastfeeding week – day 6

Can I be selfish and say I love breastfeeding because its knocked off all those pregnancy kilos & still keeps post dinner brownie and ice-cream calories at bay!? 🙂 Breastfeeding is as great for mommy as it is for babies. Read on..

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World breastfeeding week –  day 5

Growth spurts. The scary word for every new mommy. I’ll admit I had never heard of it before I buried my head into What to expect.. But breastfeeding is a boon during these growth spurts. As tough as the early days were, we mostly sail through these periods now, with minimal disruptions.

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