Mommy T's adventures; bringing up Baby T

Month: June 2016

Our ‘Alien Friend’

The first toy that we bought babyT was a set of teethers by Chicco. This was on day 2 of his birth, when daddy was keen to gift his lil baby boy a little something. Of course we didn’t use that gift till much later. But after that one gift we didn’t see the need for buying any toys, as we were gifted so many by our friends and family. Until now that is..

Our first joint (mommy and daddy with babyT) shopping expedition took us to Hamley’s (Infinity II mall, Malad, Mumbai) where we were quite uninspired by what we saw or were a few years too early to buy him lego and superhero stuff. There we saw a little crowd of kids, young and on the threshold of teenage, surrounding a display unit with various creatures, cute and awkward who were walking, babbling, making animal noises.

We stopped for a peek too and fell in love with this little Alien friend. We bought this for lil babyT immediately and named it Mork (after Mork & Mindy naanuuu-naanuu.) So here’s what we love.

The toy is a walking, talking battery operated one. Its USP is that it repeats everything you say and in a funny cartoonish voice. What better do small babies and children love than someone to constantly talk to and blabber away in gibberish.

Pros:

  • No loose parts.
  • Suede lined, not fur. I’m not overly concerned about babyT chewing on the little alien’s antenna
  • Keeps babyT engaged while I fix up a cup of tea
  • Imitates babyT’s little heyys, oohs, squeals, screams (we’re doing a lot of that right now) and encourages babyT to talk more (big big plus mark)
  • Keeps adults amused when they mouth dialogues of 90s Bollywood movies and sometimes some naughty words (read: the husband)

Cons:

  • a little pricey at Rs. 1599
  • Sometimes you forget to turn it off and you’re shouting out across the house to the cook, saying “6 rotis, bhindi sabji, dal fry” and trust me, it’s not cute in squeak language.
  • Drains battery like crazy

How I stumbled upon cloth diapering

Before you get pregnant, you really are clueless about the world that pregnancy, babies is all about. If you are lucky enough to have a friend, sister or someone in your close circle who is pregnant, you may be more aware of terms like susu count, poo colour, diapers, formula mixing etc. For me, I was the first person in my dad’s side of the family to be pregnant after a gap of almost 22 years and the last one from my husband’s side of the family, with all of the other pregnant ladies being based abroad. I had not seen a pregnancy up, close and personal. So naturally I had to rely on ‘What to expect when you’re expecting?’, babycenter and Social Media. Yes! Facebook, prepared me for having a baby.

So it all started with a friend recommending me to join a breastfeeding support group. I remember thinking, ‘eh, what’s the big deal with that? Just attach baby to boob and it’ll be fine from there on.’ I was so wrong, not only is breastfeeding not easy (at least initially), combine that with raging hormones, borderline PPDs, lack of sleep, emotional rollercoasters of joy, guilt, anger, pain etc. and you have a rather potent mix there. So I joined the breastfeeding group and my eyes popped in surprise at what all the new moms had to go through physically, how difficult and challenging it was and how their environment hampered, rather than encouraged them. I spent almost a good few weeks reading resources, cases on the facebook group and then began reading every query posted and responding to them in my mind, then checking the expert responses to see if I was right. This really prepared me for breastfeeding.

Enough digression, and back to cloth diapering. So the cloth diapering group was a sister group of the breastfeeding support group and I joined thinking what’s the big deal about ‘langots?’ Again, what I saw blew my mind. This was no ordinary white cloth, bound around in a triangle and held together by safety pins. This was a world of rainbows and unicorns, trucks and trains, owls and pandas, Minions and Mickey. I was astounded. I spent many a sleepless night thinking, yes, this is what I wanted for my child. No chemicals, no plastic, no bleached paper. I think I spent almost two months, scanning every post, pins, photos, reviews before I took the plunge and ordered my first set of CDs. I don’t think I got it perfectly right at the first shot but I did cloth diaper my child. I surely could have done things much more efficiently, but it has been a learning process and I am in a much better place today. IMG_20160622_113406

I am very passionate about cloth diapering. It has conquered my very soul and being. After 6 months with babyT, of which 4 months were exclusively cloth diapered, I can vouch for the fact that this is the future and what we should be giving our little babies and planet Earth. I am not judging moms who do not cloth diaper, all mothers are the best in terms of how they raise their little ones. But i would urge them to gain awareness about cloth diapering and give it a shot. Your bub and this Earth will be grateful for it.

So here I will share my experiences, tips, tricks and reviews. This has been one of the best choices I’ve made with respect to my baby and I would love to share that joy with you. Feel free to ask me anything about cloth diapering. I love talking about it. Happy CDing.

Hello world!

BabyT turns 6 months today! It has been a great journey.. but not one without it’s own highs and low. I don’t think anything could have prepared me for these six months – some of my expectations were underplayed and some overwhelmed me.

I didn’t sleep well last night.. the last night of him being “not yet 6 months old.” The other time I felt like this was exactly 6 months ago, the night before we had him in our arms. I am so happy to see my lil babyT grow bigger, stronger, more expressive, responsive and all that, dont get me wrong there. But as with any other mom, I wish he would be an adorable baby for a bit longer.

We chose to exclusively breast feed our babyT. Its really not as simple as that.. breastfeeding is not easy. we have come this close to giving it up altogether, but we strived together, babyT and I, his daddy and our family too. But we sucked it up and stuck it out for these six months. Nothing but breast milk went in to that little tummy of his. But we are happy we made it. And now at six months, we begin solid food. This was what made me sad. Since the month of June dawned on us, it was there at the back of my mind and heart that babyT starts solid foods soon. This made me very emotional. All this while babyT was surviving on my milk – it healed him, nourished him, protected him and gave him all he is today. Now he will share that glory with someone or some’food’ else. I felt this would change equations between him and me. We still plan to breastfeed till a good time ahead, but now we add other foods to his intake. He won’t need mommy like he did before. 🙁 But i know I’ll probably have many such moments in my life.. when he goes to school, when he leaves home to study/ work/ marry (I hate that woman already! haha) Guys, if you thought women were complex creatures, don’t even go near a mother and don’t ever attempt to understand what goes on in her little heart.

Well so today we did start solids. We are going to be following ‘baby led weaning’ and there’ll be a lot here about that. We ate a big piece of mango, which is in season right now. And guess what, there was no one happier than mommy in that room, when babyT grabbed that slice and devoured it. I don’t understand myself sometimes. But my heart has swelled with renewed love and pride for little baby. And all’s well with the world.

So with this blog, I look forward to share our journey, what motherhood and babyhood means to us, our passions for things like cloth diapering, baby wearing and the current philosophies of raising baby. This blog and its post’s are by no means an expert’s opinion, but merely my experiences, my views and what works for us. Do share your comments and feedback, suggestion and recommendations are welcome.

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