Mommy T's adventures; bringing up Baby T

Month: September 2026

Till The Tide Turned: A Twist of Fate (Part 2)

In the evening, Kalpana returned home to a sombre mood floating about the house. Tai-ajji sat in her favourite rusty chair by the window, with her eyes half-closed, muttering holy incantations as she turned the rosary beads fervently through her fingers. Aai rushed out of the kitchen, wiping her wet hands on her faded green nighty, only to meet Kalpana’s guilty eyes. “You got your period today?” Aai asked urgently and found her answer in Kalpana’s lowered eyes. “Go, go inside and have a head bath. You didn’t go to the pandals I hope!” added Aai, as Kalpana sprinted inside and straight into the bathroom.

The rest of the week brought wafts of agarbatti, steaming ukdichey modak and sizzling aloowadis. Every evening Sudya anna would regale the family over dinner about the unique Ganesha idols, the richly decorated pandals and the best prasads that were distributed across their suburb.

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Till The Tide Turned: A Twist of Fate (Part 1)

Kalpana woke up groggy, sticky, sweaty again. It was Ganesh Chaturthi today and she felt like fate had dealt her a nasty blow yet again. All that she wanted was to have a normal day… but perhaps the definition of normal was this, for her! She took a deep breath and tried to calm herself with the warm smell of karpoor intermingled with the Chafa flowers. The ring-ring of the bells and the jingle-jangle of the aarti cymbals did nothing to elevate the intensifying pain from the pit of her stomach. “Why today?” she muttered as she jumped out of under her blanket and checked the bed for stains.

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Genovese Basil in Bombay: An unexpected sight

On a noisy, dusty road leading to the highway, I chanced upon an alien object – an Italian basil plant, lush and in full bloom, growing without a care in the world. This plant that I have struggled to grow in a pot at home despite offering so much love, protection, good vibes and juju, has never managed to survive, was somehow growing magnificently in the backdrop of slums where no one watered it, the sun beat down on it and the fumes of pollution fanned it constantly. It was thriving and how!!

I am no poet but the sight of this basil plant sent a wave of emotion in me and the next thing I knew I had lines and verses forming in my head pretty much like how you watch AI respond to your query, line by line… only this was my Actual Inference and not the much hated AI.

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My Obsession with Madeleine Miller’s Circe & a Research Paper

Every myth has two kinds of characters: the ones we’re meant to love, and the ones who exist only to make the hero look good. I spent the last few months writing an academic paper about the second kind — and it just got published, so I wanted to talk about it here in plain language, without the footnotes.

The paper looks at two women from two very different traditions: Circe, the witch from Greek mythology who turns Odysseus’s men into pigs, and Surpanakha, the demoness from the Ramayana whose nose Lakshman cuts off for daring to desire Rama. For thousands of years, both of them existed only as obstacles — the monster the hero has to get past on his way to somewhere more important.

Then two novelists decided to hand them the pen. Madeline Miller gave Circe a whole novel of her own. Kavita Kane did the same for Surpanakha in Lanka’s Princess. Both books ask the same question: what if we heard this story from the “other” side?

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